Milestones: Part 5 (June 2013)



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Milestones: Part 5


My favorite and final part of my 'Milestones' series introduces my idea of creating a child enrichment center that would include specific classes based on what I have done to enhance my daughter's early learning.  I would combine all of the activities, toys, songs, advice and directions into a program for babies beginning at 11 1/2 months.

I am taking this idea to heart and below is a skeleton of what my program would look like. My program would be called the NetworkforMoms: Enrichment Center for Children.

In my program we would stress to parents that play time is 'learning time' and is a time of discovery for their child.  The program would include one-on-one weekly classes divided into 4 stages.

Stage 1, 12 months old: "Boom Beginning": This stage introduces certain basic toys, books and activities. These classes would consist of the "Breakthrough" classes that include introduction to certain toys/books as well as a special baby food class and a feeding class. This stage would also include the "Leap" class that would introduce a few basic activities to encourage specific play between parent and child.

Our happy daughter in her rocking chair playing a game with her blocks. 
Stage 2, 13 months old:  "Betterment": a more intense stage with increased interaction between parent and child during play time.

Stage 3, 14 months old: "Enriched Stage": will consist of the "Chrysalis" class that introduces one more parent/child play time activity as well as instructing the parent about the best way to have their child explore colors. In addition, the "Flowering" class, which is designed to help parents with their child's creative play, will encourage parents to allow their child to play with their toys until they are satisfied and have their child understand how to put on a bracelet.

Stage 4, 15 months and 16 months old: "Toy Exploration": these classes will introduce certain types of toys and how best the parents can work with them during play time with their child. The types of toys that I would encourage are the ones that children can play with quietly while gaining understanding of those toys' learning components.
Examining her Safari Animal shapes at 14 months old.
For example, once the child is 15 months old, the Hape Toys 'Block and Roll' stroller with blocks would be introduced.  It is useful for children that are walking, or are beginning to walk at this stage, while the blocks have a certain arrangement that I would explain to the parents (if their child is walking earlier, then the stroller would be introduced one month earlier at 14 months old).

The Hape Toys Counting Stacker would be introduced at 16 months old. This would give the child time to enjoy their stroller first and then have fun exploring their new blocks in the counting stacker.  The parents would be encouraged to always keep the blocks stacked after their child was finished playing with the stacker. Re-stacking the blocks ensures that the learning components are not lost when using this toy.

At the beginning of the "Toy Exploration" class, it will be stressed to the parents/caregivers to only 'clean up/organize' their child's toys once their child is obviously done playing with them (i.e. has moved on to another toy or seems distracted by the mess!).   
Our daughter (at 1 1/2) ready for her lunch! Look at how cute she is!
Food Class:
This class would be introduced in
Stage 1 of the program and my suggested list of healthy, organic jarred baby food would be highlighted.

As part of this class, we would discuss nutrition briefly and the ill effects of non-approved baby food on the digestion of your baby (i.e. homemade baby food, hummus, raw egg, hot dog or other meat). Next, I would provide a set of attractive food toys (see pic below) for the children to play with, while the parents are given specific play time instructions for this toy. I would stress to the parents the need to extend the intake of certified, safe jarred baby food.  There is a reason why they call it BABY FOOD!  It is safe for babies and should not aggravate their digestive tract causing them to vomit constantly.

The best combination of jarred baby food that I found was Earth's Best Apples & Blueberries, Vegetable Turkey Dinner and Green Beans & Rice. I like this combination because it does not involve too much starch and provides my daughter with the right amount of protein, vegetables and fruits.

Earth's Best (only about $.10 to $.20 more a jar than other brands!) uses only organically grown food, which means they buy food from farms that only use natural pesticides and, therefore, I trust their food for my baby.

To buy Green Beans & Rice, go to www.earthsbest.elsstore.com and search 'Green Beans' or click the link below: 



To buy Vegetable Turkey Dinner, go to www.earthsbest.elsstore.com and search 'Vegetable Turkey' or click this link: http://earthsbest.elsstore.com/shop/product_view2.asp?id=24150&StoreID=C914273E2A1240818BE5D87DD8FC76EA

To buy the Apples & Blueberries, go to www.earthsbest.elsstore.com and search 'Apples Blueberries' or click this link: http://earthsbest.elsstore.com/shop/product_view2.asp?id=25589&StoreID=C914273E2A1240818BE5D87DD8FC76EA




I found that my child is more interested in eating her food if I place it in a bright green bowl.  This color seems to make a difference - and I matched it with a bright green spoon. This way the feeding tools are one exciting color and the food is distinctly a different color. This Babies R Us spoon set has a nice lime green spoon in the pack here: http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=12550054


I used the Nuk Gerber Graduates My 1st Feeding Set bowl in lime green.  If you can't find this one, try the Green Eats Divided Plates that also come in the lime green color.
http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=13126002






Our daughter at 9 months old in her high chair!
Feeding Class:
This class would be introduced in Stage 1 of the program and provide the parents with the best ways to feed their baby along with information about high chairs, safety and clean up.

One of the feeding ideas that I would suggest is a method that I discovered when I was first feeding my daughter solids. My daughter did not like to open her mouth to receive the spoon every time. We struggled with this for weeks at 4 and 5 months old, after introducing her to peas and squash.   I tried different methods in order to encourage her to receive the spoon (helicopter noises, etc.) without success. Then I discovered a way to get her to open her mouth every time.  I put a little food on the spoon and placed the tip of the spoon under her bottom lip at one corner of her mouth. Then I ran it slowly from one end of her bottom lip to the other side.  By the time the spoon reached the other side of her bottom lip, her mouth was open and ready to receive food. Yum!

I hope my fellow moms and NetworkforMoms.org buddies have enjoyed my idea for my fantastic child enrichment center, NetworkforMoms: Enrichment Center for Children!  NetworkforMoms.org has a goal listed in the tabs at the top of this blog (growing this blog to be a larger, hosted website is one of them), however, the NetworkforMoms: Enrichment Center for Children is now another one of NetworkforMoms.org's goals. 

...and it all started here with NetworkforMoms.org!
In the meantime, my daughter and I will spend our summer taking more baby classes at Isis Parenting and Mama & Me in Boston and enjoy hanging out with our classmates!  My daughter looks forward to seeing all of her baby pals from her last class!  If you have any comments or questions, e-mail me at JoyE@NetworkforMoms.org.

Happy early learning everyone!

Joy E.
Posted June 25, 2013
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Milestones: Part 4 (May, 2013)

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Milestones: My Daughter's Early Learning, Part 4


Colors

I knew that at some point I would need to begin focusing on introducing my daughter to lots of different colors in a creative and fun way in hopes that she could enjoy exploring colors beyond just the usual colored markers and finger paint. 
Clothes by Ann Taylor, end of summer 2012

When my daughter was 13 months old, I decided that I needed her to pay closer attention to colors.  As mentioned in my earlier post "Milestones...(Part 1, October 2012)", I bought clothes that were much brighter in color that drew her attention to me and helped her to become more familiar with colors. She really enjoyed seeing me in these bright, happy colors and is familiar with her Mom's wardrobe. She now treats her Mom's wardrobe as a bright spot in our home.

Mommy's bright new wardrobe!
My colorful wardrobe bought in the fall of 2012 and the winter of 2013 included lots of bright colors, including a pair of yellow pants (see picture to the right) converted into Belly-Jeans for comfort.

The outfits were bought from H&M, Ann Taylor, Gap and Old Navy. We had a lot of fun buying these outfits and I was always able to keep my daughter's attention and encourage her to focus on these bright and happy colors!

At 14 months old, I decided to use a different, attractive color nail polish on each finger and on one hand (my left hand) in order to expose my daughter to a different color every time I played with her or picked her up.  She liked the combination seen below of the nail polishes that I arranged.  I decided to keep the nail polishes on for 2 weeks.  This gave her the opportunity to see these colors every day for a good amount of time. In this way, I could always have the same 5 colors on display for her to see all of the time, especially if I was pushing her stroller (baby facing me, she always saw my hands).

I enjoyed creating this arrangement of colors for her.  Here is the list of the colors and brands:
Pinky finger:Red "Red Carpet" by Revlon Colorstay #120
Ring finger:Orange"Congaline" by Confetti #027
Middle finger:Green "My Favorite Martian" by Confetti #007
Index finger:Blue "Mesmerize" by Confetti #170
Thumb:Yellow"Margarita Senorita" by Confetti #008



In addition, at 14 months old, I introduced her to the book
"Colors" by bright baby. I love the richness of the colors and the accuracy of the pictures.  She loves this little book, many times she would sit with this book, holding it open and begin a dialogue of her own.  It was so sweet and adorable to watch her enjoying her Colors book. You can purchase Colors for @$5.00 at any Walmart, here is the link:http://www.walmart.com/ip/2673943 

If for some reason this book is sold out at Walmart.com, here it is for @$5.00 w/ FREE SHIPPING!:http://www.bookdepository.com/Colors-Priddy-Books/9780312492472

My husband showing our daughter her favorite book, 'Colors', 5-20-13

Creative play

I really enjoyed watching my daughter use her toys in a creative way.  In the video below, my daughter enjoys using her stroller toy's flower link as a bracelet. She had been using the flower link in this way for one week before I recorded this video.

            Putting on flower link as bracelet, 11-7-12, 00:01:12



Below is a video of my daughter at 16 months and 2 days old stacking her blocks. She stacks the blocks multiple times, including an attempt to stack a block onto a round-shaped block. I enjoyed observing her use as many blocks as she could to construct her different sized block creations.

                                 Stacking blocks, 12-28-12, 00:01:00



Baby understands!

Below are a few videos of my daughter at 14 months old understanding how to use certain non-toys correctly.  I was very proud to see how far her understanding of the world around her had come since she turned 1 year old. 

             Taking puffs out of the container, 11-19-12, 00:03:00






                       Blowing her nose with a tissue, 11-4-12, 00:00:54



Play and Direction Activity

When my daughter was 15 months old, I created an activity that involved playing a game with the Fisher Price Baby's First Blocks (Pink) (there is also a boy version here-*link*) by using the shapes as glasses on my eyes and having my daughter remove them and place the shapes into the bucket (without the lid on), see the video below.

This was a different use of this toy from what it was originally designed to do, but all toys can be played with in many creative ways - this is just one of those ways. My video below shows myself and my daughter engaging in this activity. 

I came up with this idea one evening when my husband and I were playing with our daughter and I wanted to peek through the small holes in the shapes - I immediately grabbed my camera and recorded the video below. As you will see, this activity turned into a very fun game between us.

You will notice how incredibly happy my daughter is while pulling the shapes from my eyes and putting them back into the container (with the pink lid removed). Here is the link to the Fisher Price Baby's First Blocks (Pink) for @ $19: http://www.amazon.com/Babys-First-N6231-Blocks-Pink/dp/B001GKF4N6

           
 Playing with plastic shapes and bucket, 12-8-12, 00:05:00 





At 15 months old, I introduced the Hape Zoo Animals Block Puzzle  (http://www.hapetoys.com/us/en/p/happy-puzzle/zoo-animals-block-puzzle/1595).   I sat with my daughter and set up the giraffe design first (as shown in the picture below) because it had a unique shape once completed.

After the set up, I realized that the best way to have my daughter play with this toy was to have her concentrate on one aspect of the puzzle first. I tapped my finger twice on each corner block of the puzzle: I did this to identify the corner pieces and help her understand how to start the puzzle using the corner pieces first.


My daughter typically reached for a corner block of the giraffe design and would turn over a few of the blocks to view the other sides of them. Watching her explore this puzzle and enjoy the friendly animal characters was a very interesting and delightful experience for both of us.
For a list of the other toys shown in this picture, see my post"Toys for Babies and Children" (October 2012)”: http://networkformoms.blogspot.com/2012/10/a-resource-website-created-for-new-moms_17.html

The Problem with "Clean-Up Time"

I wanted my fellow new moms to know that during  my daughter's play time,       I don't force her to "clean up" her toys (since I do not consider this to be a real activity with my daughter).  I do not believe that "clean up time" is necessary, or educational for my child - it just frustrates her, bores her, causes her to protest and become angry.  I do not want my child to resent play time with me because it would involve "clean up time" - and that the frustration from "clean up time" would affect her level of interest during this exploration phase of her life.

I hope my fellow moms and NetworkforMoms.org buddies have enjoyed this latest installment of the 'Milestones' series.  Just as a recap, here is my list of the categories of my activities and ideas shown above:

1. Colors
2. Creative Play
3. Baby Understands!
4. Play and Direction Activity
5. The Problem with "Clean-Up Time"

The final installment of this series ('Milestones, Part 5') will follow in the next month along with more of my ideas, activities and pictures.  Have a great time kicking off your summer and having fun wearing those bright colors!

Happy play time everyone!

Joy E.
Posted May 30, 2013
JoyE@NetworkforMoms.org

For our 2013 family photos in the Arnold Arboretum, here is the link:
http://joyfrankevelyn.bellawangphotography.com/#/the-images/
Our family at the MFA's Memorial Day Family Weekend, 5-27-13
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